Blessed are the kids who get the loving grace of
grandparents. I remember my growing up days was completely bereft of care and
warmth of grandparents. My maternal grandparents lived in Odisha and paternal grandparents
somehow always remained preoccupied. But I still do believe that presence of
grandparents is very essential for quality upbringing of a child.
I feel happiest when I see my niece bonding so well
with her ‘Nani’ & ‘Nana’. My
niece is a happy child with least tantrums; she is still away from menace of
gadgets, she hardly watches television, and the best part is she doesn’t
complaint. She spends her spare time going to the dance class, playing
badminton, painting/drawing or having a book reading session with her granny.
No doubt a child always remains closest to his or
her parents but positive influence of grandparents is must for a healthy environment. They fulfill all the gaps which we as parents
may sometimes fail to provide due to busy lifestyles, strenuous working hours,
etc. Though I am not a parent yet but I see that coming generation is very
temperamental. They severely lack in patience.
And so they are required to be handled with care, a little extra effort
can shape them up very well. The prudence, unconditional love and effortless
nurturing skills of grandparents provide an abode where values and virtues
thrive.
I pity on people who consider aging parents or grandparents
as a burden. In fact they are the essence of a happy family. Their blessings
and countless pearls of wisdom can enhance the young generation and lift them
from the pool of darkness.
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So true Swati.
ReplyDeleteAfter my mother passed away, my nani took care of me and she played the role of my mother.
I can always connect to her despite the generation gap and she is my best friend.
Thanks for this lovely post :)
Love to you and your Nani. Presence of elders gives feeling of security and comfort, they are the blessings.
DeleteI really loved the illustration. Can you tell me more about it.
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Kalpana. What you want to know more about?
DeleteI can totally relate with this as my daughter gets so much attention for both set of grand parents! It is another matter that she only wants to watch TV and play games on the mobile :D
ReplyDeleteNow that is so sad about the present generation, they value gadgets more then anything else.
DeleteThey bring in their knowledge and wisdom to help kids grow better. These days parents are normally busy doing their jobs, and grandparents fill in the void created.
ReplyDeleteExactly, they help us with knowledge, wisdom and the valuable time. :-)
DeleteI have heard so much about this but never experienced it first hand.
ReplyDeleteI visited grandparents only during vacations and my kids lost their grand parents too soon. :(
You know Indrani, love of grandparents is totally unconditional, they know how to make kids learn with extreme ease and comfort. Their love is incomparable.
DeleteI was blessed to have the love of my grandparents until late in college but my kids are not fortunate enough...their grandfathers have passed away and grandmamas live far away.....
ReplyDeleteYou are indeed blessed Sunaina. :-)
DeleteTruely said.
ReplyDeleteVery nicely written mam.
Grand parents are a blessing in our life.
Thanks a lot Deepali. :-)
DeleteSuch a heartwarming post. These days parents are so busy sometimes in their work fronts that the grandparents play a major role in the development of the children.
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Maitreni. Grand parents are do like pillars of strength.
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