Some
unspoken words
Some
silent whispers
Some
caring glances
Some
subtle touches
Some
and more of love entail our relation
Those
eyes which speak of million promises
That
heart which beats with thy name
Souls
which thou bond with Ram’s blessings
For
no force the strongest can break the union.
Karwa Chauth
is a festival of love and emotions. It
celebrates bond of respect between husband and wife. Renewing vows of love and
companionship is the real essence of this fasting. I have seen couples fasting
as well as holding grudges with each other. Expressing love is the real spirit
of this festival. No prayer holds importance with any malice in heart. Celebrating
fast out of fear that something untoward will happen to your husband does not
make any sense. If you want to do it then most important is faith in lord and
love in heart. Fear should not hold any place in your life.
The real
reason or significance of celebrating should be to promote values, love and
respect to nurture the family bond. Seeing the present scenario more is the
show off and added stress. The real significance is diminishing. There is always added
tussle between generations. The older is not able to bend and newer is
sometimes not able to adapt, creating a lot of friction. Both need to understand
the real value of customs and traditions and move together.
"Happy Karwa Chauth Friends"